I Am Not Attracted To My Husband

She never had sex before we got together not even masturbation because of her conservative upbringing.

Neither my husband or i are the same weight we were when we got married. I am also a sexual assault survivor and through my own therapy i ve learned that it s not healthy for me to go ahead and have sex even when i am not in the mood because it creates significant resentment and is triggering for me. So i have been able to get out and date. He s smart and kind and wild and a fantastic father to our two kids i just never feel like having sex with him.

He was unemployed at the time and i had become the breadwinner. And a lot of things have changed and not just in the weight area. About a year into my marriage i started to realize i was no longer attracted to my husband. Now i am finding that my sex drive is actually quite intact but i am attracted to other people and still not desiring sex or any physical intimacy with my husband.

But a few short years into our marriage i couldn t remember anything i liked about him. Here s how to get out of marriage purgatory now. However before you throw in the towel it is first important to recognize the signs that you re not attracted to your husband and then figure out what you can do about it. W hen i married my husband i thought he was the most handsome smart funny talented guy i d ever met.

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I couldn t wait to spend the rest of my life with him. At first i thought it was a phase. If you are going to enjoy a long life with your husband you have to accept physical change as part of a long marriage. Not attracted to your husband.

Otherwise our relationship is awesome and i am so happy to be partnered with him. I am a 43 year old man and my wife is 41. In a series of events my husband and i opened our marriage almost 2 years ago. Here you ll find four tips for increasing physical attraction in your marriage and building a stronger more fulfilling relationship with your husband.

I can tell you my dead libido was all in my head or related to not being attracted to my husband. On my part i started masturbation in seventh. I m not attracted to my husband physically but he wants to be closer. I m currently in a relationship with a boyfriend of almost 6 months and i can t get enough.

When you are not attracted to your husband learn to accept change.